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Its all about BEING not about DOING (purpose and success achievement series)



I don't know how many of you have had similar experience of people asking what do I do to succeed, what can I do for my husband to love me, what can I do to get promoted, what do I do to get this or that. And it marvels me you know? Because when you are not asking the right questions; how do you expect to get the right answers. if you are asking the wrong questions, you will most definitely always get the wrong answers. And that's been the fundamental problem responsible for many people's frustration, repeated mistakes, being confused and not making a headway. Until we start asking the right questions we are doomed to the present confused and frustrated state some of us are in presently. Now what's the right question you ask? Let me show you

You see like is my banner and identity; I believe and am sure that this universe has a definite design and structure which defines the order and patterns of operations for all entities existing inside of it. This means that things are what they are - by this making, all entities and organisms existing inside of it has specific feature and characteristics peculiar to it for the purpose achievement for which it exist in the universe. All organisms and species has a definite design which sets the order of how it should operate in order to achieve its purpose of existence and within the realm/standard at which defines the scope of their lives, other living organisms seems to perform better and achieve their purpose than the human species. Why's that you ask? For the same reason for which this topic was inspired. The plants and animals are 100% loyal to reality in accepting and assuming the nature it has set for them but the major issue with humans are the problem associated with trying to be A(another's design)  instead of B(reality's assigned design) and wanting to do what A does and expecting to get the result (achieve purpose) B supposed to get. And this is a contradiction in terms and a breach of his own terms of existence - a betrayal of his own integrity.

Since reality has defined everything, giving us our nature which is metaphysical and not social, biological or legal hence none of the latter should form the basis for determining who you, as a person was made to be - you real identity. Operating at that metaphysical realm of being, no biological, social, economical, political or legal challenge can limit or stop you from acheiving sucess, maximize happiness and purpose of existence. Because reality is the final arbiter nature itself is the just judge, fairly giving to everyone as he lives in compliance and conformity to its dictates. The life of a lion and all the activities and process it undergoes which includes hunting, preying, feeding on raw flesh, territorialism etc comes to it with ease because that's how it was designed. his accepting and assuming that nature reality has assigned him makes the whole activities and process required to gain the values required to sustain his life seamless and he can conquer any challenge that confront it so longs as he remains loyal to accepting and assuming that nature reality's system assigned to it. Man, because of how complex the world operates having advanced so far into what contemporary society has become, has lost touch of who he is. And as long as he would not be loyal to accepting and assuming that assigned design from reality, he is doomed to a perpetual search for happiness all of his days with no guarantee of ever achieving it(self actualization - maximization of happiness)

It is not what you do that matters its actually who you are that determine what you do to produce the desired result. Every profession career or role in reality has a definite natures assigned characteristics features traits. You don't have to try do what a manager does in order to get the rewards/benefits you just have to be a manager and see yourself do and perform the functions and activities seamlessly and effectively to achieve the rewards you desire in them. You don't do what a husband does, or what a wife does or what a doctor does or what a farmer does or what an artists does to achieve any of the benefits you covert in them you simply just BE them and the doing comes seamlessly.

This is what individualism according to the philosophy of system seeks to achieve and address in today's world. In choosing any role, where socially or professionally, you have to match who reality's system design you to be with the values and traits it requires to become it trade the values of your nature profitably between and among other entities and organism to become it and see your self achieve unimaginable feats because you have been able to acquire what reality demands as the currency payment for it to deliver what you seek in that role (maximize happiness, success and purpose achievement)

Until today's world acknowledges this truth, admits it's failings, repents of the suicidal mode of living he has been practising althrough his history and uphold utmost loyalty to accepting and assuming the nature reality's system has assigned each one of us; then and until then achieving genuine happiness - individual maximization of happiness which characterizes the ideal society seems bleak

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