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FAMILY STRUCTURE (ADVICE AND ADVOCACY)

So you want to start a family and you don’t have a vision for the family, are you kidding me? You mean you don’t have a clear discrete picture of what and how you want your family to look like penned down and you want to have a successful home? You mean you don’t know what you intend to achieve with that kind of family you want to raise and have it penned down. Like you don’t have reasonable reason why you even want to go into marriage and start a family or you think it’s a sin if you don’t get married? In fact the sinner is he who married for every wrong reason which is outside the standard/ doesn’t align to the ultimate purpose of the system by the philosophy of system. You mean you have not determined the cost, identified the resources and how to source those resources required to achieve the vision of that kind of family you want to raise? you mean you don’t have an administrative structure, template, model to run guide direct control and regulate operations and involvements ...

Selflessness is deceptive

When I preach against selflessness I'm not being a heck am just being honest and sincere because I have been there acting and believing  that everything I do is ultimately to benefit others without knowing that everything one does is eventually coming back to him good or bad so ultimately whatever you do is for your own good (forgiveness kindness help tolerance etc are selfish virtues) To be selfish entails a character that reflects a recognition of his uniqueness by nature requires that it is nurtured and developed by the values he seeks in order to grow from seed to tree and bear fruit and must continue to seek out these values to keep bearing fruit. This must be a man's primary concern and placed above serving the purpose of others I have denied the me in me the values it needs to grow and reach highest potential just to prove to my friends that I am a good person I have sacrificed what the me in me really needed to grow in way of my career job and many other ways to ...

HOW TO GENERATE AND DEVELOP IDEAS TO THRIVE(A MECHNISM TO ALWAYS STAY AHEAD OF COMPETITION)

  I in the context of philosophy would describe imagination as aesthetically (philosophy of beauty & taste) your fantasy of the way ideal situation should feel, look and taste. I would define it as your means of conceptualizing the ideal reality in its metaphysical state – I call it the imaginative conceptualization of the metaphysical ideal reality- plato refers to it as the world of forms This is the bedrock of ideas hence my topic reads: HOW TO GENERATE AND DEVELOP IDEAS FOR PROGRESS *The manifestation of reality is an idea business of the mind which requires one to mind his business* Ideas are raw state of reality solution elements/materials in the mind formed out of creative and imaginative conceptual exercise of a man to be an answer or solution for the satisfaction of a need or a problem that will turn present undesired state of reality into the ideal state Everything we see in physical reality has its root in ideas hence metaphysically, the foundations of ...

Structure of the mind ( part 2 emotional dysfunctionality)

Reality functions as a system with everyone and everything existing inside having a definite design unique identity assigned it by reality to be able to perform its role effectively as component member of the system. This doesn't exclude the fact that man as a component member of this system was given the ability to feel as an irritable functionality to be able to alert him like indicator when he is pursuing the wrong course/values which is destroying his body. So long as the body is function this faculty is able to help man through pain and pleasure sensor direct and correct him when he is doing what is wrong to avoid destroying the body. However if Man's body develop a fault or an ailment which affect the function of this faculty that he is no longer able to feel pleasure or pain his life is set on the course of destruction with no means of redeeming him on motion of self destruction because his lost his capacity to feel he lost his capacity to identify what could be de...

Thou shall never bow (leverage on the power of individualism)

Opposing all social theories and school of thoughts in field of social science, arts and humanities propounding that the basic unit of the society is the family, the philosophy of system holds that the basic indivisible elements/unit of the society is the individual. The individual possessing specific identity and unique value peculiar to just him with a significant role and impact on the value of his individuality which other units be they individuals or institutions of society depends on to function is the basic unit of society The individual is whole, he is complete, he is potent and capable to independently  instigate and initiate actions that can enhance the optimal functionality of other units and likewise can deplete the functionality of other members and have a significant effect or impact on the goal of achieving continuity of the system in an optimal and healthy state of functionality In all of mans waking hours throughout the entire course of his life, his ultima...

You can achieve Your purpose without a plan(Joseph a phlegmatic case study)

As a philosophically minded person that I am, my concern for practical knowledge is second to none and when it comes to the bible and Gods word its not an exception. I need to verify, I need to proof and arrive at a personal conviction about the truth and validity of every word that is written and proposed to me for ideal living Based on that, I love to do character study of bible characters. Even on a normal day, I am enthusiastic about the biographies of great people who have been able to overcome, triumph and make their marks despite all odds. I try to study their personality traits, challenges and weakness to see how they relate to my present situation - to see how they maneuvered and see how I can apply it to my own life. Because it is said that History always repeat itself when people refuse to learn from history. Studying these past failure and success gives me an upper hand not to repeat their errors and be better than them In that regards there's a particular person w...

understanding the structure of the mind (Part 1)

I have established and have since been educating on the foundation that reality functions as a system - everything in the universe, having a specific feature and unique identity functions interdependently releasing and trading the unique value of their individuality as individuals and institutions towards sustaining the functionality of the system in an optimal and healthy state. However irrespective of the fact that reality's system is objective of any of the entities(observation or opinions)  existing inside of it, their individual experiences and the reality which they know are different. this is because of the mindset which I want to dwell extensively in discussing Many authors psychologist, motivational, speakers have done a lot of work on issue of mindset and mind transformation knowing that it is the basic resource or element that determine and has the power to decide the outcome of the life of an individual and even the whole universe that's why its important w...

Marriage and family is not different from corporate establishments

I am an idealist with a clear picture of the ideal society which I am advocating for structured around and operating on the philosophy of system. A society where everything and everyone thrives. And when it comes to marriage and family, I believe by that standard, what we have today is far from the ideal and its progressively moving to a more critical dilapidated precarious state that the whole social structure which rest on family as the second basic component element that makes up the social system is at the peak of collapse. In the ideal society as defined and proposed by the philosophy of system, “being precedes doing” is what we uphold because what a person does or what character or action a person or organism exhibits is a product of its nature - its metaphysically assigned attributes. So man "is" and man can "become". However, until he (be) he cannot do(perform) but here’s the irony; if we in our wisdom consider it necessary to train people to become...

RICHLY POOR PEOPLE

Because in contemporary society enough attention has not been given to those who define and set the standards for determining the values, goals and direction of a culture and tradition of people living in the society; so there is displacement among alternatives and choices are difficult to make because people can't get priorities right. Everyone wants to be rich, everyone is seeking and chasing after money, after possessions(women/men, properties, cars etc) people have lost their sense of reasoning to be driven by money. Women are blinded by what a man drives and blinded to what drives a man, seeking after money for acquiring possession, engaging in terrible acts,  compromising on code needed to preserve the purity of their uniqueness as an individual, and share display of low self esteem in surrendering their dignity. I thought money was the tool, I thought we had a specific purpose for which money was the vehicle to take us there. I have seen that money is a good servant...